Who says emotions are easy to deal with? Are you confident about your emotional stability? Can you handle difficult situations and get out of it easily? Are you healing from a broken heart?
Each one of us who may have experienced being brokenhearted must admit
that healing is an option but not everyone takes the initiative required.
Nobody can give you orders as to when you should begin the task of healing.
Acknowledgment of your accountability for your emotional well being could possibly be the beginning of this challenging path. How you manage this hard time is completely your decision.
Passing the buck to other individuals for your emotional status is unreasonably demanding. If you choose to be the victim in these predicaments, the downside will be that you are not acquiring the ability to fix your problems. You won't be able to gain knowledge through your own experience which may end up in you not recovering from that brokenness. You can't continually pin the consequences to other people for your hurts.
Choosing to accept responsibility of what has happened and acknowledging your imperfections are a better option when you begin the tedious process of healing. Recognizing your faults and misconceptions you have made during the course of the issue you are dealing with, could give you a clearer view of your participation.
Beginning to understand your feelings and emotions as your body's response of your thoughts could enable you to understand that they can be the cause and effect of everything that you do and feel. Our thoughts are constantly present in every factor of our lives. What goes on in our lives is simply a representation of our emotional and mental state. How much love we give is exactly how much we are getting in return.
Whoever we turn out to be in our lifetime is the person we've projected onto the world. Knowing how we can see ourselves beyond our comfort zones will allow us to comprehend that what we are putting out there is exactly what we would like the world to see in us.
If you choose to alter the way you look at the world via your emotional well being, you must begin with your inner self. Examine your inner depths. Identify and admit that you are accountable for your emotional wellness.
No external causes can affect your inner emotional state unless you allow it. The main point here is how you cope with your life and consequently, your emotions, will reflect outwards. Be aware that there are usually two options in life and perhaps you aren't taking the time to see the fork in the road.
It is our very own understanding and selection of what we choose to think that controls our current reality. Acceptance and being responsible for our emotional wellness comes, as we recognize our choices and ponder the outcomes we wish to receive.
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Kim Halerwich-Clark is a Certified NLP Practitioner and Life Coach, as well as, the author of seven personal development books. Kim is an Instructor on Udemy where she teaches a variety of topics to students all around the globe.
She is the Founder of The Solution Wizard Company that is dedicated to assisting individuals in overcoming challenges that face society every day.
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